Memory: The
Heart and Soul of Intuitive Guidance
Have you ever regretted not following a hunch?
It seems to be a universal experience. Usually there is no presentable evidence
to back the intuition. When our inner guidance arrives without such credentials,
we tend to ignore that wisdom, often to our detriment.
I believe we can create some credentials for
intuition. We must begin changing how we envision this often invisible marvel.
Typically we marginalize intuition by portraying it as “spontaneous knowing,
without thinking, or knowing how you know.” Defining intuition within a narrow
boundary of improbability, makes it easy to dismiss the experience by
rationalizing its source as unreliable. If we can portray intuition simply as
“knowing from within,” we will make better progress.
Intuition Involves Rapid Pattern Recognition
Academics have a standard approach to
explaining what happens within. For example, in his book, Intuition: The Promise
and the Perils, psychology professor David G. Meyers describes intuition as an
act of pattern recognition that derives from very rapid, unconscious perceptions
and calculations. We cannot, however, review those perceptions for
appropriateness, nor those calculations for accuracy. In fact, one of the
“perils” of intuition, according to this a viewpoint is the familiar truism from
information processing, “garbage in, garbage out.” False notions, extreme
experiences, etc. can bias or distort the intuitive process. This approach
receives support from studies showing that the older, more experienced worker is
more likely to successfully rely on intuition than the less experienced.
The academic approach seems compatible with
Cayce’s frequent instructions to “correlate those truths” in situations where
intuition is the operative process. If intuition is a quick study based on past
experience (and in the view of transpersonal theory, such as Edgar Cayce’s,
experience can trace back lifetimes), exploring the subjective source of the
wisdom might lead to some revelations. Let’s start by asking, what does it mean
to know from within?
When Mary met John at a party, she experienced
herself as being the focus of his attention. He presented himself in an
attractive and agreeable fashion, subtly suggesting that she would really enjoy
even more of his company. When he asked for her phone number, she was positively
inclined, given the appetizing vibes of his presence. Mary was somewhat
surprised, therefore, by her almost involuntary reluctance to accept his
invitation as she fumbled a clumsy excuse to demurely decline. What was going
through her mind? How was her intuition functioning? Was she being wise, or
simply shy?
Unconsciously, Mary knew something that she
felt applied to the situation confronting her. But what was it? Without being
aware of what exactly she knew, she nevertheless acted on the feeling it
stimulated. Let’s see if we can get a more detailed glimpse of what happened
unconsciously.
Intuitive Guidance as a Reminder
When we are being intuitive, we can say it is
like, “I know THIS about THAT.” In Mary’s case, the THAT was John and the
prospects of their spending time together. What was the THIS? Since the
intuitive response formed within, yet outside Mary’s awareness, she cannot
answer that question. But what if Mary were asked to focus on her feelings
standing there next to John, and then asked, “what are you being reminded of?”
After a few moments, Mary might have answered,
“I’m remembering a time when I discovered the candy bar, Almond Joy. Its name
excited me. I bought a few bars and ate them quickly and with enthusiasm. It
wasn’t too long afterwards, however, that I had a real bad pain in my stomach
and felt very queasy and disoriented. A few weeks later, I tried to eat just
one, but had the same reaction. I like the “Joy” on the wrapper, but the actual
candy doesn’t suit me.” Might the same approach/avoidance conflict apply to her
reaction to John?
It may be that intuition arises from a process
of being “re-minded” of something, bringing the wisdom from a past experience to
apply to something currently in focus. If so, how can we become conscious of
that information? Asking, “What are you being reminded of?” is susceptible to
all kinds of distorting influences. How can we evoke a response from the
unconscious that we can trust? What would make this process most trustworthy? To
give you my answer to this question, let me share with you the thought
experiment I created to resolve a dilemma involving sharing intuitions.
Holding an Ideal for Invoking Intuitive Guidance
I considered this hypothetical question: A
person has enlisted my professional services as a psychotherapist. I am
extremely psychic. How can I use this ability to help without violating my code
of ethics (‘do no harm’)?” It requires that I present a healing mirror. Sharing
a story about myself is less intrusive than diagnosing or giving advice. I would
have my psychic abilities functioning creative ly, and I would think of just the
story to tell about myself that would stimulate in the person the bit of shift
they needed at that time.
To test this idea, I asked my friend Donna to
participate in what I called an “In My Experience” memory experiment. I asked
her to silently focus on a current dilemma in her life, without revealing it to
me. Using the “Inspired Heart” meditation (described in Jan-Mar, 2017 Venture
Inward) I embraced a heart connection with her, and then I prayed that Spirit
would direct into my awareness a memory of a specific experience in my life that
I could share with Donna, something that she might find helpful in dealing with
her dilemma, whatever it might be.
After a few moments pause, I found myself
remembering an incident from my youth. I had been granted provisional permission
to use dad’s power mower to cut the grass (instead of the usual push mower that
was mine to use). At the moment of my memory, I had just lost control of the
mower and it veered out of line. I quickly recovered and tried to hide my
mistake and as I did so, I looked back to see if my mom, who was reading outside
out back, had noticed my slip up. The lesson I took from that had to do with my
habit of seeking approval, especially from my parents, and how I tried to hide
and keep a secret from them about my experience with the mower. I went on to
talk about how the seeking of approval had hindered me in many ways.
After I relayed this memory, and my reflections
on it, Donna had a smile on her face. With a slight gush of relief, Donna
revealed that her question concerned her teen-aged daughter, and whether or not
to take her to a counselor. Donna explained that she was seeing evidence in her
daughter that she may be adopting a trait that Donna had to work hard to
overcome with her own mother—too strong an attachment that seemed to undercut
her daughter’s self confidence in her own instincts. Donna was wondering if it
was worth working on in counseling. My story helped her decide to follow
through. Following my ideal regarding sharing intuitive guidance seemed
validated.
In Gratitude, a Pure Heart is a Trustworthy Guide
We need to feel confident that our intuitions
reflect reality rather than our hopes, fears, or other judgments. When I began
my process with Donna, I didn’t want to be reminded of just anything, but
specifically about a spiritual truth underlying Donna’s situation. Preparation
for this intuitive operation is needed just as a doctor might prepare for a
physical one—by cleansing self of all but the ideal and purpose of the
operation. Here is where the practice of the “Inspired Heart” meditation comes
into play. Taking a few moments to experience the pleasure of heart awareness
(“knowing myself to be myself and one with All…” ala Cayce) makes a big
difference. Letting go of breath control and trusting the spontaneous
inspirations during this special meditation leads to feelings of gratitude and
an open heart. A grateful heart is a pure heart, with no hopes, no fears, and no
agendas. It is a simple embrace of and attunement to “All that is, As it is, in
Truth, Goodness and Beauty.”
Memories Provide a Footprint of Intuitive
Recognition
Having made the proper preparation, to then
find a way to make the unconscious wisdom available to the conscious mind, we
have a couple of choices.
We can draw upon an ancient expression of
Cayce’s axiom of oneness: divination. As Mark Thurston explained in his book
Synchronicity as Spiritual Guidance: All of Life's Working Together to Leave
Your Little Hints, if we work with ideals and purposes, we can prepare ourselves
to observe “meaningful coincidences” for guidance. Imagine that a person’s
countless memories are each imprinted in a separate marble within a gigantic
lottery sphere. The seeker makes an attunement to the ideal and purpose
motivating the inquiry, then spins the ball, and accepts the memory that pops
out “randomly.” The person meditates on the memory to digest the spiritual
lesson it implies as it pertains to the inquiry. We could call it “memory
divination.” Instead of using cards, or other objects, we use our own memories.
On the other hand, we could adopt the model
outlined in my book Edgar Cayce on Channeling the Higher Self. In this approach,
the person meditates on the ideal, and sets the purpose to receive a memory that
will be the seed of the necessary guidance, and makes the attunement to oneness.
To then “channel from the higher self,” the person simply accepts the first
memory that comes, and interprets it for the lesson it implies.
In either case, reflecting upon a memory to
gain wisdom is a natural soul activity. As documented in my book The Intuitive
Heart, spiritual literature has often referred to heart awareness as a witness
to it. To use a memory in this way makes a lot of sense. Using either of these
models to portray the otherwise hidden process of intuitive guidance, we may
provide the beginning of the revelation of intuition’s credentials. The memories
provide a clue, like a footprint, suggesting the nature of the intuitive
connection.
Pilot Studies in Cyberspace
To test the value of using memories as
intuitive guidance, I’ve involved A.R.E. members in our online pilot studies
“Normalizing the Paranormal.” We began with an adaptation of the online “Dream
Helper Circle,” (described in Venture Inward, April-May-June, 2017), using
memories instead of dreams. I called this new experiment the “Remote Empathy
Circle.” It’s a word play on remote viewing, but more suggestive of our ongoing
theme of Oneness.
In such a circle, seven to ten people join up,
each by submitting a personal “dilemma” to resolve. A computer randomly chooses
one of the submissions to be the designated target. I notify the players that a
dilemma has been targeted (although no one knows whose or what it is). Everyone
then uses a recorded guided meditation to receive a memory to use as a teaching
parable. The memories are collated and the collection sent to all the players,
who then respond by noting the commonalities they see in these stories and the
lessons derived from them. I then reveal the actual target for evaluation.
In one circle, the memories had many references
to lack of confidence, not feeling good enough, and relationship issues causing
problems for the person’s self-esteem. The person whose dilemma was chosen had
submitted a question concerning self-sabotage with regard to responding to
opportunities for professional advancement. Upon reading the memories and their
analysis, the person’s response was, “I found the experience absolutely amazing.
It was very interesting, indeed. I was very moved.” In this case, I think the
saying, “you teach best what you have to learn” applies to the memories folks
provided, because everyone said they gained from their participation.
The circle allows us to better appreciate the
individual response by examining commonalities with the other responses. Success
at this level builds confidence and encourages players to relax more, let go
more completely into the Inspired Heart process. The next step would be to see
how well folks could perform on a singular basis, responding to their own
questions or other material.
There are many potential applications of this
“memory-divination-channeling” process. As part of our “Normalizing the
Paranormal” campaign, we have several other pilot projects underway in
cyberspace, involving A.R.E. members researching the utility of these various
applications. Getting answers and experiencing meaningful connections for
oneself and with each other has been especially rewarding. I invite the reader
to join us in these revealing projects.
One project is an online program of spiritual
self-guidance that has pleased many of our participants. I call it the “Soul
Reflection Peep Show,” based on the idea that the soul reflects upon its
memories to gain wisdom. In this program, a person submits to me six personal
dilemmas. I add related questions of a more general nature to enlarge the target
pool. A computer selects one question at random, and emails the person that a
target had been chosen, but not revealing the question. The person listens to
the recorded guided meditation, retrieves a memory, analyzes its lesson and
sends me a report. In response, I reply by revealing the targeted question, and
the person analyzes the connection for guidance.
Another project involves a process of
responding to hidden quotations. I first tested the idea with our online
Atlantic University students. The assignment asks them to bring forth memories
to provide a personal intuitive connection to important passages I’ve secretly
targeted in their text books. In the “Intuitive Story Telling Circle,” folks
make intuitive memory connections with spiritual quotations, such as the Edgar
Cayce “wisdom cards,” or passages from the Bible. Sharing personal experiences
related to a given spiritual truth or proposition is a perfect exercise in what
Cayce advises in terms of sharing from personal experience rather than theories.
The Validation of Intuition
As we explore this memory approach to intuitive
guidance, using the various pilot projects underway, the issue of validation
needs to be examined in a special light. At one level, I am proposing a protocol
for eliciting intuitive guidance. It has specific steps that make “sense” and
can be examined. Are the memory based teaching stories valid as intuitive
guidance? I’ve made the case that it is a valid intuitive process. Do the
intuitions prove valid? How do we evaluate? Here we get into some deep water.
We are not dealing with simple psychic skills
such as guessing the color of a card, or even describing what a camera at a
remote location is recording. We are dealing with meaning and wisdom, qualities
not of the 3-dimensional perceptual world, but more of what Edgar Cayce would
call the 4th dimension. Is the value of a book contained in its physical
constituents, or in the meaningful experiences a person has upon reading the
text? One book is worth more than another by virtue of the meaning we
experience, not by what we could get selling the material the book is made of.
We are seeking wisdom, rather than facts that
can be checked. At the moment, we can only partially evaluate the intuition:
Does it reflect an ideal of oneness? Does it have applicability in the life?
When we recall Hugh Lynn Cayce’s slogan, “the best dream interpretation is the
one you apply,” we enter into the realm of Edgar Cayce’s “epistemology,” which
is the philosophy/science of obtaining knowledge. As we will meditate on Cayce’s
theme, “truth is a growing thing,” we will come to see that his approach is more
like the epistemology that governed Native American science. Since both Cayce
and the Native Americans both had a firm relationship to oneness, it shouldn’t
be surprising that their thoughts on the nature of “evidence” are quite similar.
Learning to grow into such truth will play an important role in our evolving the
credentials of intuitive guidance.
If you wish to participate in any of the
ongoing, no-cost online research projects involving dreams and intuition, please
email henry.reed@atlanticuniv.edu